Everyone who are embracing this rather difficult life curriculum will notice the people you love dropping out of your life but by bit. I have covered this issue in a gentle fashion. Today I will be blunt.
The people who are trapped in the nine to five grid chose to go that way due to having an unconscious rage to God. We have all been there, some snap out of it while other still wont. I have had many talented friends who wasted it all, these people chose to have meaningless spouses, sex and romance (Romance comes from the word Rome, and Roma was about death. In my opinion, they have enslaved themselves… The rest who did not choose romance, kids and sex, chose to listen to their parents, got a job (which means persecution in Hebrew) and did not question they parents, and other so called authorities at all. A common quote by Ken Wapnick, a premiere ACIM teacher, was that parents and children are the most difficult class rooms. So do not wonder why the people you love or are closest to you are stuck in the old paradigm, your friends as well. I sure as hell remember that dealing with certain so called relatives was not an easy trip, due to having feelings for them but also knowing I have to release them. Some relatives, and friends were easier to let go than others, and some have come back for a brief time, or for a longer period.
At the moment I do not have people I consider friends per-se. There is no such thing because only minds can join, not bodies. The like minded friends you meet on your journey, are also in their own path, and will go towards their own destiny. We hang around, learn from another, and then we move on without attachment. If you are a renegade type like my self, then most likely the idea to have kids will not be something you will resonate with, while few people, here and there, even after Awakening, may be interested to give it a try, although, at this stage of spiritual growth, it is very common to question having children. If you are into kids, and finding a spouse in your Awakening, then the idea to hang around by your self, smoking a blunt, blogging or playing a guitar, may not be your thing. Change or trasformation where we appear to separate happens even among like minded people. I was suddenly left by a person recently with whom I shared important moments with a mystic friend from Finland that bridged me to a deeper understanding of magic. I have done the same thing several times to other people.
The old 3d matrix based relationships are breaking down because majority of the people from your past miserable, and want to stay there due to fascination humans have for drama. Misery is very seductive. Majority of you Awakening from this reality, which is a dream, know that to detach from the dream, we are also asked to look at everything that would keep us cemented in the dream, and as you have seen, majority of our old habits, our thinkin that led to drama were doing exactly that: cementing us into the dream. And so did our old relationships with friends, and family, most who still see meaning in drama, romance, nostalgia etc.
If you go back to your old relationships, it is not unheard that the people of higher consciousness feel depleted after spending time with old pals still not aware of the things happening on this so called planet. We live in a atomic or vibratory Universe, a deeply quarantined part of it that pretends to be solid or dense. It seems that we are separated, apart from one another, but we are indeed just one mass of Atoms. A pool of consciousness, and we are all one Mind. Your Old friends perceive the world as solid, and like to pretend we are separated. As a Turkish- Native Egyptian (Hebrew and Bantu) who has relatives, and friends from each continent and beyond, many from my past who are still caught in the old educational version of history, have resistance to hear historical truths, hidden by freemasons. Many Europeans are obsessed with skin tones, and heritage issues, and abroad many have religious resistance due to strong investment in a Vatican or Masonic deity that does not exist. In other places it’s a combination of both, mixed with so many other bitter truths about their personal and collective lives, which they have to face, otherwise they have failed in life. Since this is the case, that many of my older friends are not aware of anything, especially history, there is a sarcastic element vibrating from my “unconscious” old friends when it comes to history, especially when I talk about the fall of Rome or dark ages that lasted 500 years. And it must be so. These people go to theaters to actually watch propaganda based movies like Avengers “Captain America” who saves all the helpless Asian people, or other so called minorities. The imagery in these films, although they are “PG” movies is very sinister in nature, and if you watch these materials your whole life without discernment, well, there is an sinister element implanted within you now, and I personally avoid these people, or limit my exposure to them. There is no time to waste now that we are bridging to the age of Aquarius, and have the chance to graduate from this planet, which, again, is a living organism, and also wants to return, and awaken in higher realms, and wants us, the cells, to tap into mother earths decisions to raise like a new born Phoenix. Sounds interesting right?
So when it comes to your old friends and family… Allow the miserable people from your old life be miserable. Some will come back to you, because conscious people are needed on this planet anyway. But before that, as your vibration gets higher, the jealousy, and hatred from your old relationships will become apparent, thus the idea to spend time with these people will loose meaning. Heh… I personally wish the people from my old life to suffer beyond imagination so that they will let go of their dumb comfort zones, and come to a place of being where I am at the moment.What I am saying is not Enlightenment, but it sure as hell is a more joy based, weird, and wonder based reality, rather than the mundane walking dead kind of a thing.
Awakening is actually a life or death thing. You see. If your brain is not rewired in a way that can absorb higher consciousness as earth is raisin its atomic vibration, then all the other realms that are less dense than earth, will rip you apart. This same consciousness is coming to this planet day by day which is why there is much confusion on the planet. Awakening is very biological. That is why it is also known as Kundalini awakening. It is a big blow for the system, organ, brains etc. When a person is not aware of these planetary changes, they get depressed, sick, addicted to things or will have compulsions to distract themselves with overworking. Then the body breaks down, and you age fast.
The people you once called friends, and even family are still into coca cola, and satanic propaganda movies, and will deny this is the case, because it is overwhelming to hear we actually live in a dream world very close to hell. They still hang around with other people who are into the same denial, and their perception of the world is set in “tube vision”. It is linear, or left brain thinking. It is actually harmful for their brains for you to drop an information bomb of what is happening. It may stimulate the entire brain too much, and perhaps lead them to some kind of psychosis.
My personal life has been filled with losses of many different things, but the joy that comes out of it is something that can not be explained. I still talk to my mother once in a while, who is dear to me, and I am open to communicate with my brother when it is truly needed. All the rest in my life: perhaps gone forever. My mother is becoming aware that the person called Klem Kaan actually died years ago, so she will have to adjust to this new being that still does not mind being called Klem Kaan, but indeed represents a different consciousness, that does not find meaning in the things many people still see as meaningful (hollywood, dating, romance, having children, gossiping, partying etc). I honor my relationship with my mom, and brother due to going trough so much with them. I had a great none religious child hood which was a great contribution to regain the awareness I have now, and it is still raising. Many loves to my mom and junior brother.